Mindfulness/MBSR

Mindfulness

Mindfulness means many things to many people. It can mean a particular state of mind (“mindful”); a practice of some sort (e.g., body scan, lovingkindness); a particular type of awareness; and/or a multifaceted personal practice used as a way of coming to know the nature of one’s mind, emotions, body, and habit patterns.

Most people would define mindfulness meditation as a training of the attention that can result in increased concentration and focus, and less reactivity. There is so much more to it than moment-to-moment awareness of thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations. However, if everyone increased their mindfulness according to that definition, assuming their intentions were sincere, the world would be a better place.

We all have ways of thinking and behaving, both when we are "stressed" and when we're not. The mindfulness I teach is rooted in MBSR (see below). It's a way to be so aware of how you think and act that you can eventually be at-choice--you can be intentional with how you meet your own thoughts, sensations, and emotions. 

There are all kinds of claims being made about the benefits of mindfulness, and you should always look into the sources behind the claims to determine whether you feel comfortable with the sources and the claims. The messenger and the message are both important, as nothing is free of context.

Mindfulness can inform and improve parenting, leading, and even meetings. Yes, there is hope for meetings! If you are interested in learning how mindfulness can clarify and deepen your experience and relationships at home or in the workplace, contact me at mary@marymartinphd.com. 

MBSR

The Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) course is an 8-week, evidence-based, experiential program designed to intensively and systematically train attention and cultivate greater awareness of the nature of moment-to-moment experience. It includes a daylong silent retreat between weeks 6 and 7 (on a weekend). It is traditionally taught to a group of 8-20 people, live or online. This is not usually a one-on-one program, as group learning and interaction is an important component of the experience. It is the foundation of what can be a lifelong personal practice, and a prerequisite for many multi-day, mindfulness and "insight" retreats.

MBSR was developed in 1979 by Jon Kabat-Zinn, and decades of research have demonstrated positive outcomes such as:

  • increased self-awareness

  • improved emotional regulation

  • reduction in symptoms for various physical and behavioral health conditions including anxiety, depression and chronic pain

  • positive changes in risk factors that may lead to more serious chronic ailments

We all have ways of thinking and behaving, both when we are "stressed" and when we're not. MBSR is a way to be so aware of how you think and act that you can eventually be at-choice--you can be intentional with how you meet your own thoughts, sensations, and emotions. 

MBSR is a serious commitment and its format is standardized, therefore it is not a program that teachers customize in significant ways. If someone is offering MBSR, (I hope) that means they have been trained to teach it. I am in continuous training with the Brown University Mindfulness Center, and my training includes trauma-informed mindfulness practices. If you are interested in MBSR, contact me at mary@marymartinphd.com.

Mindfulness for Financial Advisors

The first act of my professional life was ghostwriting, largely in the financial services industry. I also created study materials and even items (questions) for sample CFP and other certification and licensing exams. I've been in the orbit of financial services for 20 years, and I currently consult as the Learner-in-Chief with both the Sudden Money Institute and the Financial Transitionist Institute. 

I created Mindfulness for Financial Advisors to introduce Mindfulness as a Way of Being to people whose concerns are usually around doing. The class is for busy professionals who aren't going to prioritize the time necessary for MBSR, and who want mindfulness packaged in a way that connects it to their work in a practical way.

Topics covered:

  • Presence--The How

  • Embodiment--The How

  • Deep Listening, Inquiry, and other Relational Skills

  • Dealing with your own emotions as well as those of your clients

  • Transforming your relationship to what you call stress.

  • Mindful movement, eating, and social media/news/Internet consumption

  • We become what we practice. Crafting and cultivating new habits.

Contact me with questions, including pricing for teams. mary@marymartinphd.com

Mary's MBSR opened my eyes to the possibility of personal growth through awareness. As a teacher, Mary is direct, supportive, and sincere.  The class was a wonderful, much-needed form of self-care.

I signed my daughter up for Mary's teen class on a whim when she was trying to adjust to adolescent life in NYC during a pandemic while skipping two grades, studying at home, and pursuing a rigorous schedule of pre-professional ballet training. She grudgingly attended the first class but now looks forward to her weekly class and incorporates the strategies learned into her life. 

Lisa Dutchover, NYC